When one’s path is to lose identity in order to see the impact of ego on the self, finding a voice can be hard. Where does one stand who can see the good and bad in both? Where does one speak from who has done such good and such bad? Most people operate in a with me or against me mentality, and compromise is anticlimactic, against the worshipped melodramas of our culture. A compromised view is a silenced one. I write this now and wonder if I believe this? Can I exemplify?